If you are questioning your sexuality and/or looking for dating women for the very first time: I have some good news for you. You have come to the correct place. Before I ever started dating a girl a whole year ago, if was only just had only slept with and dated guys. It is not that I am scared of dating women or that I am weak…It’s just that I have never been exposed to such a diverse population of women before.
The most important advice I can give you is to learn how to read other people’s body language and how to determine attraction. You may be asking what the attraction is…I would say it’s all about the body language. A group date with a group of women is like watching paint dry. Each body language tells you something different. Its amazing how that plays over into attraction.
Lets say you are going on a first date with a beautiful woman you have never met. At the end of the night you walk her to her hotel room and you are absolutely smitten. This is the start of a crazy relationship that has now turned into a full blown triumvirate of love, friendship and sexiness. That is because you learned so much from the woman you met on the street. You now know how to read her body language to tell if she is attracted to you or not.
If the previous paragraph is confusing at best, its definitely going to be more confusing if you don’t know where to find your orientation when it comes to dating women. The absolute best place to find your orientation when it comes to queering is on a dating community website! A dating community website is the perfect place for any number of reasons. Some of them are explained below. However, one good reason to join a community website is because it is catered towards the queerer.
Tinder is one of the most popular online dating apps. Women are able to search and view profiles on the site. It’s the best way for them to meet other women they feel really attracted to. They can then send a ‘taster’ or a short message to the woman they are interested in. If the woman they sent a message to is interested, they might decide to ‘read chat’ which is a form of conversation on the site. This is a fun way for women to get to know each other quickly.
Another popular online dating community is MoonKiss. MoonKiss is a web based service that is designed for people who are lesbian or bi-curious. People who are interested in meeting someone online can sign up for free and create their profile. They can then look at matches offered by other members that may not appeal to them. When you are matched with a person you think is a good match, you can send a message and if she agrees to a date, then you can arrange a time and place where you two can meet.
Another way to attract more women is to act like you are straight so you will stand out from the rest of the crowd. This way, when you do start dating, you will have someone who isn’t going to turn you down the second you say something like, ‘I’m bi-curious.’ Instead, you will stand out from the sea of bisexuals and queers who will only date men – unless they are already bi-curious themselves!
There are also many websites dedicated to queer dating women. These sites cater specifically to the needs of those who wish to date people who are either bi-curious or even who are bi-sexual. A person can browse through the profiles of those who look like a good match for them and make an internet connection. They can also learn how to act like a man and look like a woman in order to get a date.